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Transforming Anger into Compassion through Mindfulness

Thich Nhat Hanh · January 17, 1999 · Upper Hamlet, Plum Village, France
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This talk details handling anger through mindful communication and compassion. When upset, share feelings honestly within 24 hours to foster understanding and prevent resentment. Remember happiness is shared, not individual, and communicate calmly and lovingly about suffering. Pride fuels behaviors that push loved ones away, so acknowledge anger and suffering openly. Practice self-restraint, refraining from harmful words or actions, and nurture anger like caring for a precious baby. Transform anger through mindful breathing and walking meditation, recognizing it may stem from misperception. Authentic love involves honestly sharing struggles and seeking mutual support. Reflect on anger calmly, treating it as a mindfulness bell, and embrace emotions with tenderness. Transform anger into compassion by shifting from punishment to a desire to help, tending to your inner landscape like a gardener. Mindfulness fosters mutual respect and understanding, allowing you to be fully present and engage deeply with life and loved ones.

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